like i said in my previous post, i shall start writing down stuff abt how things are done in germany and in singapore.. how people are different, society is different, and why this is so.. alot of things are intricately linked - systems support one another, and many policies are guided by a common principle which has to change if anything else can be changed. which is why it's so difficult to say, this is better or that should be like that, cos for one thing to be changed alot of other things have to as well.. :/
so, during my conversations with my schoolmates (german, peruvian) i realised that compared to in singapore, kindergarten-going kids here and in peru really just play, draw, make friends and have fun generally. when i think abt my kindergarten days i do remember games and fun in the garden and all, but i also remember spelling, dictation, maths, chinese.. well everything the germans only start in primary school. in fact, some kids really can't read and write when they go to school and they start from the basics here.
this really reflects something abt the singaporean society. there is this emphasis on academics, that kids shd start learning as soon as they are able to absorb, that we should maximise whatever time there is to stuff information/knowledge into their heads, that they should be ahead of other people, be it their peers or kids in other countries. all the stuff about tuition for kindergarten kids just puts me off even more (and amplifies this attitude).
this then extends throughout your life. you start to believe that you must always outdo others and be the best. studies are important, relaxation and fun can be put aside when you have exams coming up every other week. work is important, you do not insist on having time for your family, friends and yourself when you could be losing your chance of promotion by not putting in the extra hours..
i also think it shows how oriented we are towards the economy. how many times have your parents told you, or have you heard other parents telling their kids they have to study hard so that they can get a good job and earn a decent salary? (okay this is not abt the kindergartens only, but my thoughts are abit messy now :P) this is not to say that we shdnt be concerned abt economic progress and all, or that we shd be like germany, start proper schooling later.. but okay, i can offer no solutions or best way forward now, will continue in another post..